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Joesepp
mail@joesepp.network
On Individuality
The internet was meant to be a place of freedom, discovery, and entertainment. A vast digital space filled with knowledge and information, where anyone at any given time could log-on and absorb that knowledge, where anyone with a connection could build, learn, and most importantly, do it all on their own terms. Instead, it has become a cesspool filled with algorithms controlling your attention, distracting you from what's useful and worthwhile, turning what should have been an ocean of knowledge into a shallow, addictive puddle of sludge. And the worst thing is, we did it to ourselves. Ignore the corporations that feed you the algorithm. Users are the one's creating engagement bait.
We were made to think, explore, experiment, create. That spark lives in every human being - the drive to question, to tinker, to bring something new into existence. They are stripping us away from these things, slowly, deliberately, brick by brick. The internet feels crowded now, in a bad way. Not with people, but with noise. They feed us with brainrot and useless information that we could live without. Endless short-form content that trains your brain to expect stimulation every three seconds. Celebrity dramas that mean nothing to your actual life. Ragebait headlines and political battles engineered for engagement metrics. All of it polished, packaged, and pushed down your throats through your phone and you're happily letting them do it.
The platforms own our data, our identities, our attention. They decide what we see, what we think, who we are becoming. Every click, every scroll, every moment on a post is tracked, analyzed, monetized. They build intricate profiles of your desires, your fears, your insecurities, then sell you back to yourself in ways you cannot refuse. Personalized ads that feel eerily intimate. Recommendations that keep you hooked just long enough to serve one more ad. Notifications that pull you back in when you try to step away. It's not coincidence. It's architecture. Designed to keep you cattle in the pasture, grazing on whatever they scatter in front of you.
The average lifespan of every major news story is about a week before people move on to something new that delivers them that fresh shock value again. That is understandable considering the fact that people can't even focus on a 30-minute long video anymore.
We probably can't change the mainstream. The giant platforms are too entrenched, their business models too profitable, their algorithms too refined at exploiting human psychology. But it is your choice as an individual - either to keep being cattle, a passive consumer, a slave to the mainstream, or to free yourself from these shackles. They are not holding you by force, only tempting you with infinite novelty and validation. But you are more than capable enough to overcome whatever temptations you have. It takes discipline, yes. It takes awareness. Learn to ignore the content that rots your brain. Close the tabs. Mute the accounts. Delete the apps that hijack your time, or use them to create, not consume. The power to look away is still yours, even if it feels difficult at first. Yes, every creator needs to consume sometimes, in order to create, but that's where balance and content filtration comes in.
You don't need to know about the dramas, breakups, grievances, or petty feuds of people you don't even know in real life, and they don't know you even exist. We now know more intimate details about influencers and distant celebrities than we do about our own neighbors. Trends seem more important than who we actually are. Dance challenges, viral sounds, filtered aesthetics, manufactured controversies, all of it competes for your limited attention while your real life waits quietly in the background.
These days, everyone seems to be the same. They follow the same trends, worship the same celebrities, like the same filtered photos, quote the same viral lines. You scroll through most feeds and you see the same opinions; either formed by left or right, same aesthetics, same references, same manufactured outrage cycling through the same predictable stages. Individuality has been smoothed out into neat, marketable personas. Thought has been replaced by reaction and emotion. Depth has been traded for reach and engagement. Comfort and confirmation started to matter more than truth or originality.
Unfortunately, what we do online spills out into our offline lives. The way we think, talk, behave. Our attention spans shrink to the length of a reel. We compare our lives to everyone else's highlight reel. Anxiety rises. Loneliness deepens even as we're more "connected" than ever. Real relationships suffer while you form your parasocial ones. The digital shapes the physical more than we like to admit.
"If you're not remembered, then you never existed" ~ Lain
That's why I am writing this. You're capable of more than endless consumption. You were not born to be a passive node in someone else's attention economy. Create. Whatever it is. It might be a small website like this one, a sketch in a notebook, a piece of music no one else hears, a garden in your backyard, code that solves a problem only you noticed, words that capture a feeling you've never seen expressed. Create and share it with the world. Throw it into the echochamber anyway. Just the right people will find it. The ones who matter. Meet new people through genuine interest, not algorithmic suggestion. Join communities that value substance over spectacle. Or create your own!
Use the internet for what it was created for. Use it as a tool in your life, not as a controlling agent that uses you. Browse with purpose. Search with curiosity. Build instead of browse. Write instead of doomscroll. Connect instead of compare. The infrastructure is still there - the open web, the possibility of independent spaces. It hasn't disappeared. It has simply been buried under layers of convenience and addiction. I love the internet, but people use it for wrong reasons.
The choice remains yours every single day. Every time you open an app, every time you feel the pull to check "just one more thing," every time you feel your mind going numb from another feed. You can choose the path of least resistance and slowly dissolve into the crowd. Or you can choose to step back, reclaim your attention, and remember what it feels like to think your own thoughts, to create from your own soul, to live a life that isn't optimized for engagement.
The internet can still be what we once dreamed it would be - but only if enough of us decide to use it that way. Start with yourself. The freedom is still there, waiting for those willing to reach for it.
If you have read all of it. Thank you. Whatever the time it is for you; Good Morning, and in case I don't see ya - good afternoon, good evening and good night!
Individuality died. Restore yours. Live. Create. Grow.
